What to Wear for your Engagement Session

Tips and Tricks for styling your outfits for your Summer Engagement Session 


Engagement photo sessions are usually the first time you work with your photographer, and the first time you and your fiance have professional photos taken together. That can be super-exciting….but it can also make brides and grooms a little nervous because you don’t know what to expect, what to do, how to act, or what to wear.


I can’t tell you how many times couples have arrived at photo sessions, and they’ve told us how nervous they are. But, by the time we’re in the middle of the session, they say how easy it is and how much fun they’re having! We really try our best to make it a fun, relaxed photo session where couples can be themselves. That’s the sweet spot where we get great photos of you, who you are as an individual and also as a couple.


Engagement photo shoots help us build rapport with you before the wedding day. We also often find that couples are more relaxed about photos when the wedding day arrives because they’ve already worked with us at their engagement photo shoot. You are more relaxed in front of our cameras, and you know what to expect!




Many couples have two outfits for their engagement session. They start the photo session wearing dressy clothes, and then change into more casual clothes (or vice versa). Consider bringing an outfit to change into mid-way through your session. Give yourselves options on the day. Even if you’re certain you know what look you’re going for, bring at least two outfits, one dressy and one casual, and mix it up. Trying different looks makes for great versatility in your engagement shoot, so ladies, give yourself the option of a skirt and pants.


The most important thing during your engagement shoot is to be yourself!  The whole purpose of the shoot is to capture exactly who you are, and show your personalities. If you pick an outfit that just isn’t ‘you’, you’ll feel uncomfortable, and trust us, it’ll show in the photos.



Think about your body type as well; you know what suits you and what doesn’t, so don’t just pick something you thought looked great in a magazine. If you’re worrying about what your arms look like in that strapless dress, it’s going to be harder to capture those beautiful moments of a couple in love.


You’ll want to coordinate with each other, rather than looking like Mr. and Mrs. Identical. Think about colors that complement each other, say cherry red and bright blue, or baby pink and turquoise, and make sure your outfits are color coordinated. The same goes for how dressy you’re planning to be; if you’re going for a formal look, then both of you need to be formal – while her in a ball-gown  and him in shorts and a t-shirt might seem quirky, is it really the look you‘ll want to remember?


The Do’s and Don’ts for Engagement Shoot Outfits



Do Rock layers and accessories and embrace bold colors. This is all about giving you choice and flexibility, and if it usually takes you a while to feel natural in front of the camera, accessories are perfect for giving you something to do with your hands.

Do professional hair and makeup - this is a great time for your trial 

Do wear comfortable clothes. If you’re not comfortable, it will be noticeable in the pictures.  
Do wear comfortable shoes if your location will include a lot of walking. But don’t wear tennis shoes! More like choose to wear cute flats or boots with a low heel rather than 5-inch stilettos. 

Do launder and iron your clothes (we’re not  your mom, sorry! Even photoshop won’t get those wrinkles out)

Do choose clothing that compliments your personality: Make sure your clothes look like “you” and   fit your personality.

Do coordinate your clothing with each other: Wear clothes that are the same level of “dressyness.” and wear similar shades that compliment each other. Choose clothes that look best on you.

Do choose clothes to compliment your location: If you are taking pictures in a field or the mountains, consider clothes with more natural colors. And if you are taking pictures in a downtown area, you might consider more urban clothes with bolder colors.

Do choose colors that compliment your skin tone: For example, if you have light skin, white clothing can wash out your complexion in photographs

Don't wear white & khaki combination - it will wash you out

Don't wear anything with big logos or lots of writing (it detracts from the two of you)

Don't wear exactly matching outfits - it's just a no-no

​Don't wear brand new clothes straight from the store (spare yourself the wrinkles and fit issues)

Don't wear clothes that are too tight or too baggy (if it fits perfectly, you’ll feel perfect; if it doesn’t. . . it will show in your photographs)

Don't wear white socks that peek out of your pants please guys!

Don't tan right before your shoot (tanning disasters can happen at any time, but right before your engagement shoot? Disaster!)

Don't wear clothing accenting your least favorite body parts: If you have certain body parts that you dislike or are uncomfortable about, don’t wear clothing that accents them. 

Don't wear fluorescent Colors: Fluorescent colors (such as bright orange) tend to color cast on faces, necks and hair. When the shirt is so bright, it often also changes the color of the person standing next to them.

Don't wear trendy clothing: They will date your photos as soon as the trend goes out of style.

Don't wear T-shirts and tennis shoes: This includes white t-shirts under button-up dress shirts with the top buttons undone. You don’t want a little white t-shirt peeking out above your nice dress shirt.

Don't wear large shirts that are not tucked in. For guys, it’s usually better to wear a belt if you are wearing a nice button-up shirt. Sometimes, if untucked shirts are too big or too wide, they don’t look good and are “boxy.” Fitted shirts and jackets look much better than wide boxy on





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